I have talked a bit about this site before, but this one was wonderful, a very well written passionate piece. The site is The Shape of A Mother, I have a link to it on my sidebar, and it is chock full of photographs of real women in various stages of undress, and various stages in their reproductive lives. There is alot of nudity, so if you are offended by that, then stay away.
This would have been some life-saving stuff for me back when I was a new mom and all my friends were still totally what our society considers to be "hot", "sexy", "bathing suit-worthy" and I was home with my rolls and my marks and my mama body feeling like a freak, a true anomaly. Ha! I look fine and so do you, and even though it can be a daily struggle to connect up what we see in the mirror, what we see in the media, what we feel like in the dark, what we feel like we should think when we read all those great feminism books, maybe the pics on this website, when visited every so often, can be added to that jumble in our minds of what Mothers look like. anyways I like it. I can always find someone on there with something to say that resonates, and it is a worthwhile read.